lol. today. i went to school. Ate prawn noodles which suked and got cheated 1 dollar. so sad. but that is not what i wanna say. okay hi. today went to school den went thru my phy. or did i not? i cant rmb. i did math today! yes. i realised during maths lesson that my studies sucks. am i abit slow or what. i calculated my L1R4 prelims which added up to alr 32. omg la. i better buck up these last month before i retain! and i dont wanna retain. ltr get laughed. =( damn sad. but after realising how much i got for my prelims, i still went home, play gb and table tennis and still got time to blog. i dunno when am i going to start studying. too many distractions around me. hahah. my i think i can discipline myself to study. amath re test coming soon, i promise myself that i will study hard for the paper and at least get a pass. i got F9 for my amath la. so yes i'll start studying. LAST ONE MONTH!
and after a few days of listening to what people have been saying and commenting and i realised one thing, that this person is actually not irritating in nature, he just likes to have fun which makes ppl irritated but still he didnt mean it in a bad way. and i used to quarrel with him many times and i always thought i was right but after much reflecting, it came to light that he was actually making sense and that his decisions were somewhat mature and it all told me or rather explained to me that he is one of the good persons i've met so far. my close fren and my buddy. lol. so i wanted to say to ppl that sometimes, judging people too quickly or hastily might give u negative thoughts and that will make u think that, that particular person is bad and that will make you hate the person which is something real bad. and once a person said which i forgot who said it, said that making friends are better than making enemies. i also realised that even though that person made you angry and you told yourself that he's so immature and so irritating, and after serious deliberation you know that he is wrong and that you did nothing wrong to make him do what he did. and you 2 start ignoring each other. when that problem arises and he think he's right and so do you. its always better to just give in and say sorry even though you know that you're not at fault. because if no one wants to give in and say sorry, the both of you will just stay stagnant, not talking to each other. you may think that this is just the problem between you and him/her but this may also affect the whole grp of friends.
so there are two so called values i came up with
-look deeply into the problem and judge wisely, do not let ur anger judge for you
-if no one wants to give in, why not you? you can always make the change and get back as friends and forget abt the issue.
=)
and after a few days of listening to what people have been saying and commenting and i realised one thing, that this person is actually not irritating in nature, he just likes to have fun which makes ppl irritated but still he didnt mean it in a bad way. and i used to quarrel with him many times and i always thought i was right but after much reflecting, it came to light that he was actually making sense and that his decisions were somewhat mature and it all told me or rather explained to me that he is one of the good persons i've met so far. my close fren and my buddy. lol. so i wanted to say to ppl that sometimes, judging people too quickly or hastily might give u negative thoughts and that will make u think that, that particular person is bad and that will make you hate the person which is something real bad. and once a person said which i forgot who said it, said that making friends are better than making enemies. i also realised that even though that person made you angry and you told yourself that he's so immature and so irritating, and after serious deliberation you know that he is wrong and that you did nothing wrong to make him do what he did. and you 2 start ignoring each other. when that problem arises and he think he's right and so do you. its always better to just give in and say sorry even though you know that you're not at fault. because if no one wants to give in and say sorry, the both of you will just stay stagnant, not talking to each other. you may think that this is just the problem between you and him/her but this may also affect the whole grp of friends.
so there are two so called values i came up with
-look deeply into the problem and judge wisely, do not let ur anger judge for you
-if no one wants to give in, why not you? you can always make the change and get back as friends and forget abt the issue.
=)
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